The 7 Stages of Planning Anything with Friends

The 7 Stages of Planning Anything with Friends

A SocialSquad Story, featuring slight Ross-energy, a bit of Chandler sarcasm, and total Joey vibes

Every group has a Monica trying to organize things, a Joey living in the moment, a Ross over-complicating everything, and a Phoebe who somehow ends up singing about it.

This isn’t Central Perk — but it’s close.

It’s four friends, one group chat, and the eternal struggle of actually making a plan.

Stage 1: The Spark 

It began when Ellie, the Monica, dropped the message:

“Weekend trip?”

Josh: “I’m in!”
Maya: “Could we BE any more overdue for a hangout?”
Liam: sends a GIF of Joey yelling “How you doin’?”

For five minutes, the excitement was real. It felt like that Thanksgiving episode when everyone actually showed up on time.
And then… radio silence.

Stage 2: The Ideas Explosion 

The next morning:

Maya: “Beach?”
Josh: “Bowling.”
Liam: “We could do karaoke!”
Ellie: “Let’s make it organized, guys.”

And there it was — the word ‘organized’.
Just like Ross explaining “we were on a break,” the chat spiraled into chaos.

Someone even said, “Let’s just hang out at mine,” which was code for nothing’s happening this weekend.

Stage 3: The Scheduling War 

Ellie opened her calendar like she was planning Monica and Chandler’s wedding.

“Friday?”
“No.”
“Saturday?”
“Can’t.”
“Sunday?”
“Depends.”

Everyone was “super busy,” yet somehow spent hours scrolling TikTok.
By the end, Ellie was one message away from throwing her phone out the window and shouting, “Seven! Seven! SEVEN!”

Stage 4: The Budget Meltdown 

Josh suggested a road trip.
Maya started calculating petrol, snacks, parking, and emergency coffee runs.
Liam disappeared like Chandler avoiding emotional conversations.

The group agreed to “split later,” which history proves never happens.
Ellie stared at her notes app and muttered, “Could this plan BE any more expensive?”

Stage 5: The Group Chat Funeral 

Every friendship hits the point where the group chat flatlines.

No replies.
No memes.
Just a name — Weekend Legends — gathering digital dust.

Then, at 11:32 p.m., Josh, the Joey of the group, texted:

“So are we doing this or just talking about it again?”

And just like that, the chat rose from the dead.

Stage 6: The Last-Minute Chaos 

By Saturday morning, everyone claimed to be “on the way.”
Translation: still in pajamas.

Josh forgot his wallet.
Maya brought snacks but no water.
Ellie triple-checked the itinerary that nobody followed.
Liam showed up late with sunglasses and confidence.

It was the pivot! scene in real life — chaotic, loud, and absolutely unnecessary, yet somehow hilarious.

Stage 7: The “We Actually Did It” Moment 🌅

They made it to the coast just as the sun dipped below the horizon.

No perfect timing. No grand plan.
Just fries, laughter, and that easy comfort you only get with people who’ve seen your worst karaoke moments.

Maya fell into the sand.
Josh nearly lost a shoe.
Liam tried to take a “candid” photo that looked staged.
Ellie, for once, didn’t care.

Because like every Friends episode, it wasn’t about the setting — it was about the people.

The Morning After

The chat was filled with blurry photos and too many inside jokes to explain.

Josh: “We actually did it!”
Maya: “We deserve an award.”
Ellie: “Let’s not wait another year.”
Liam: “Next time, no planning. Just vibes.”

Classic denial — because they all knew the next plan would follow the same seven stages again.

Moral of the Story

Making plans with friends is like every episode of Friends:
Predictable. Chaotic. Full of love.
Someone cries, someone forgets something, but in the end — everyone shows up.

SocialSquad just makes it easier.
One app, one plan, one tap — no need for twenty-three unread messages and a Ross-level meltdown.

Because friendship doesn’t need structure; it just needs effort.
Less “we should hang out,” more “see you there.”

SocialSquad
Your group’s real-life version of Central Perk — plans that actually happen.

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